Showing posts with label PetziOpinion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label PetziOpinion. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Air Sign: May 21 - June 21



By Pet-o-Sirius*

“I always wish my pets could talk, but then I remember all the things I have said and done in front of them.” – Nikhil Saluja

Gemini pet, you are the sign that meets yourself coming and going! Your symbol is The Twins. Like the drama mask of the ancient Greek Muses, you are both comedy and tragedy: you are a pet that is quick-witted, curious and affectionate as well as high strung, longing to be all over the place at the same time, with a short attention span.

For you everything is the great reveal, you are keen to know the future. You love puppies, and kitties, and cygnets, and ponies, and a baby macaw parrot that loves to imitate puppies. You have examined your values and have found that although you are emotionally intense, you have learned to express your emotions to your pet parent. You save it for when they are on important phone calls.

If you are canine a good time is when they are trying to leave for work. You hug their leg and hang on for dear life. They love that. They are your BFF and that satisfies your pet soul. You nurturer you! The first half of July is your cat’s meow – a great time to take your pet parent on a trip to, for example, the Canadian Forces Base in PETawawa, Canada or PETerculter in Scotland, or St. PETersburg in the U.S.A. and Russia. This will definitely lift your spirits. Be ready for new opportunity because you might meet your soulmate with a similar “petigree” there.

Gemini, you are a forward thinker. If you are a cockatiel that wants to be up on social media, learn to Tweet. If you have a dogged look you may want to take charming selfies and share on Instagram. Angel fish you have each other’s backs. Post your inspirational bestie’s video on Vimeo. You will never be green with envy because green is your color – it is so good it is bad!

Your least favorite movie is Home Alone. Your favorite songs are How Much Is That Doggy In The Window? and Who Let The Dogs Out?  B-I-N-G-O and Where Oh Where Has My Little Dog Gone?Your top band is Pet Symmetry. Your gem stone is agate, your Ruling Planet Mercury. 

Gemini feline, you must lead by example and attempt lofty goals. The top of just about anywhere is your comfort zone. Whenever anyone walks by tune into their vibe, hiss, growl deep in your throat and let them know that you are bold, intrepid, fearless, not afraid to communicate, a guru to be praised.  Leap off and then surprise them with an open pawed swipe. You will instantly become the hero you are in your own mind.

*Our guest writer's work can be seen at http://valeriekent.com

Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Earth Sign April 21 – May 21


By Pet-o-Sirius*

“To err is human, to forgive, canine.”  Anonymous
“To err is human, to purr, feline.”  Robert Byrne

You lucky Taurus you! You are in the second sign of the Zodiac, the bull, resolute, dependable, faithful. Your ruling planet is Venus. This is the year to start something new, perhaps a self-help course. Most of you pets will respond well to something active and upbeat. Think about Toe Tapping for Taureans or Juggling for Gerbils.  If you are more of a social activist, perhaps join Puppies For Guppies. They can always use a paw, leg, feather or fin.

Your fondness for Saturdays is legendary. Perhaps you even mark each one off with a paw print on your calendar. This is the day for you to head out with your friends, whether you are at the end of a leash or flying around overhead. Look for adventure and you might just find romance! Express your sensual nature. It could happen at the dog park, the kitty corner, or at the local feathers in flight fundraiser.

Taurus is traditional. As a Taurus macaw, dog or cat, for example, you would seldom go against your destiny, but choosing a new direction occasionally is still very acceptable. Cultivate your relationship with your pet parent. Dart here and there when they are trying to get you to do something.
When the sun and moon are in Taurus in April and May, risk, take a chance because this is definitely your time.

Keep the love light in your eyes for July and August, although it may feel a little rocky. Keep your pet peeps around you like a cloak of gems: diamonds, quartz crystal, aquamarine, lapis lazuli, maybe emerald and cautiously venture into affairs of the heart.

As a Taurus fish you will find you are not impulsive, much more practical then some, yet pleasant and energetic. If you are a gecko you could find yourself being thought of as obstinate, bossy and full of advice. Ignore it because you know in your heart that you are a hard worker and should take it a little easy. Taureans, you know creativity is your strength. Live it up. Lie in a new spot on the floor.

*Our guest writer's work can be seen at http://valeriekent.com

Sunday, April 19, 2015

Fire Sign March 20-April 20


By Pet-o-Sirius*

“I like pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.”

Winston Churchill

 “Spring has sprung, the grass is ris. I wonder where the birdies is?"...
Those energetic, daredevil, athletic Aries pets with their magnetic personality are ready to tackle anything. This pet will scale a wall, or go rock climbing, or challenge an eel to an all or nothing sprint, chances are good that those pets are Aries.

They are the headstrong ones because they are ruled by Mars and Pluto. This has a tendency to veer them towards independence. However some of these traits are iffy…for example pet parents may experience their Aries pets as optimistic and enthusiastic, leaping about and the next minute they are moody, short tempered, snappy, impatient and aggressive. Think a cockatiel with temper tantrums refusing to sing or recite the National Anthem.

In spite of occasionally being difficult to relate to because they might be self-involved, Aries pets can also be upbeat, can be a good friend and a plus is that they do need people. Consequently, in spite of a few negative traits, the spontaneous Aries pet responds well to receiving diamonds or anything that is the color red. The sign symbol of Aries is the Ram so this courageous creature will be the one leading the way to protect a pet parent who is under siege.

*Our guest writer's work can be seen at http://valeriekent.com

Sunday, February 22, 2015

Water Sign February 20 – March 20



By Pet-o-Sirius*

“Our perfect companions never have fewer than four feet.” – Colette
 (p.s. unless they can fly or have gills) – Kent

Pisces are lovely creatures: sensitive, compassionate and devoted.

You, Pisces dog might graciously give up your kibble to a Persian feline or box turtle if the situation warrants it.

Because you are highly emotional, your pet parents might have to do a lot of calming and soothing if your feathers are ruffled or if you are a pet donkey or iguana, then an apology might be in order. On the other hand you are a pet that likes to get up and go and to do things. It could be you would even like to go to Lake Louise. Make no mistake, however, because you see life as you want it to be, not quite the way it really is.

You do not actually like criticism, are easily led and you are not a leader. You will follow at every opportunity. The Pisces sign is two fish swimming in different directions: This fits because you vacillate between the real world and the spiritual. Sometimes when you dream you can see yourself running, jumping and leaping, paws flailing in at least two directions.

You relate very well to people, make friends easily at the ballpark or in a tree (birds excepted for the feline folk) and are easy going and well. You are sensual, enjoy sucking on your own toes if you have them and relish relaxing foot massage, even without ambiance like candles and fragrant oils. Neptune and Jupiter are your planets and because of your gentle nature and your affinity to water, you love soft sea green. Your birthstone is the Aquamarine. You, pets in the Pisces Constellation have the distinction of coming and going at the same time.

*Our guest writer's work can be seen at http://valeriekent.com

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Air Sign January 21 – February 19



By Pet-o-Sirius*

"Animals are reliable,  many full of love,  true in their affections,  predictable in their actions,  grateful and loyal. Difficult standards for people to live up to.”  (by Alfred A. Montapert)

No time for shilly-shallying if you are born under Aquarius. This is the water bearer, referring to your love of people making you the ideal pet.

People want to be loved. You can see it in their eyes when they come home to your wagging tail or fervent leg looping. As long as your dual planets, Saturn and Uranus, the ruby planet, have your back, you will be petted and fed table scraps.

You love to wear turquoise colored collars and gemstones to show your friendliness, blues being the colors that elicit love and affection.

 You are an attractive pet, both honest and loyal and although sometimes you have difficulty expressing emotion, you are in fact sensitive and gentle. On the other hand, you could become strong willed and forceful if you do not get your own way and will want to dictate the brand of your kitty litter, chew stick or fish food.

Sometimes your exhibitionist tendencies are lively, yet appreciated. Your zany fun-making ensures you are good company for your pet parents.

You may not make friends all that easily. You are known to be eccentric.In your heart you believe in the brotherhood of petdom. Do not allow It is understood that you thrive on challenge, perhaps swimming the English channel or leaping the Grand Canyon would be right up your alley.

From January 21 to February 11 you may experience a slump to communications with your humans. Everything will get better soon. You will see. Don’t try to do anything.  Just lie there and scratch unless you are a fish.

 *Our guest writer's work can be seen at http://valeriekent.com

Friday, January 9, 2015

Petzi Reads: Books for the New Year

By Anna Muggiati


If your New Year's decision includes reading more books, fiction and non-fiction,  here are a few suggestions for pet parents and pet lovers. From funny poems to serious advice on how to deal with pets in the vet office, these are books that I picked for a fresh start on my reading list:







I Could Pee on This is a cute little book, a delight for those who would like to understand the dark and yet cozy humorous personality of cat owners. The poems are written on behalf of cats and show profound knowledge that the author, Francesco Marciuliano, has about the feline nature. As a cat parent I can tell you that there's one in special that made me laugh out loud... Its title is Scratch. That reminds me of my scruffy sofa, destroyed in its first year in the house, and now covered with a non-elegant slipcover to hide the claw-damaged arm. Of course the book is humanized. Or is the human behind it who got "catified"?  Talking about that...







I highly recommend Citizen Canine, by David Grimm (read his interview here) for the opinion-maker pet owner. It is an in-depth analysis that points out new trends in our relationship with cats and dogs. It also brings lots of facts and historical background of how pets became family members and their evolving status in the eyes of the Law. What I really like about it is the research behind it, sharing lots of precious information to be found nowhere else and, of course, brilliant writing.






Another one on my shelf is Harlow & Sage (and Indiana), created by Brittni Vega. It's a beautiful tale of friendship, acceptance and a playful way of using dog-voices as conductors of a lovable tale of real life canine friendship. Impossible not to fall in love with Harlow and friends as her heart seems to be as big as she is!!! Not to mention her admiration for Meryl Streep. The book is illustrated with photos of the beautiful dogs. The beauties already conquered 600 thousand followers at Instagram (due to their irresistible cuteness and warmth), and the loving writing just adds more reasons to be one more of their followers!








A next one on my list is Catification, by Jason Galaxy and Kate Benjamin. The authors explain cats' nature, relating to how their environment should be inside a human house. For most people a house remodel is a cool way of improving life quality, and this book brings cat and people co-habiting to another level. My favorite environment is the one that brings a tree-like-feeling inside the house. Now that we live with 5 cats (Me-WOW!) a "catification" sounds like a possibility. Even before my kitchen's total remodel. That sounds like cats became a priority here...are they already citizens in this household?






Last but not least VET Confidential is a must-have book on your shelf. Written by Dr. Louise Murray, an experienced vet, vice-president of the ASPCA hospital in New York. She shares practical tips of how to take the most from a vet visit and from those feared moments at the ER. It's a good guidance book for the new and old pet owner. In short, it is a sensible way of instructing how to be a responsible parent/owner and enables you to evaluate well what your pet really needs. I will consult it every time I schedule a new appointment for my pets.


Juju really would like to be a kitten-writer(or reader?)!













Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Earth Sign December 22 – January 20




“Dogs have owners, cats have staff.”  Anonymous


Although Saturn is your natural planet, your planet of choice is Pluto.
Do not allow yourself to feel extra anxiety about getting enough rest.
Take plenty of reasonable breaks at every opportunity. 

Be humble when you approach the table between January 8th and 14th.
Tread lightly, as if on eggshells, exhibit honesty in your eyes and in
your manner. Choose your best strategy: sidle or slink, drape or
stretch out underfoot or overhead prominently.
Being at your best and exhibiting a slower pace and quietness will
encourage generosity of spirit and treats.

As a Capricorn pet you will be at your all time highest level of
animal magnetism at the full moon on January 5th. Don’t hesitate
to make your needs for comfort and pampering known at the
New Moon on January 20th.


This is a perfect time to bond because this is such a positive sign.
You will be able to handle all of life’s situations and give your
mind over to pondering the tough questions: Is there love in my
future or will I be able to express my bodily functions at will? 

*Our guest writer's work can be seen at http://valeriekent.com


Sunday, December 7, 2014

Open Cat Letters - Sophie and Jack

This is the first post of a series of open letters that two of our secret guest bloggers are writing on behalf of  their cats. It all started with a post written by Jack's human, who inspired Sophie's human to write him back.  And, of course, I couldn't resist to send it to Jack, so he could write to Sophie.
Cat humans, lovers and admirers, enjoy fine writing and classy humor!



Sophie, photo by a secret admirer

Dear Jack,

My name is Sophie. I was the runt of a litter of five kittens found deposited in a large garbage bin.
Having spent some weeks living in veterinary surgery, Liz., the vet.'s assistant invited Pamela to see me.

I looked a fright - a tiny, scrawny creature with just a few sprigs of fur. In short, after being promised that I would be a demure and sweet-natured house cat, Pamela took me home. Little did she know what was in store for her! She almost had to mortgage the apartment to pay for the massive doses of antibiotics I needed, after which, I changed from being a pathetic, deserted street-cat to running the household with an iron fist.

I decide when my human should get up to serve me breakfast and, if she takes too long about it, I knock the receiver off the telephone...this does a better job than any alarm clock. But the conditions here are really quite good. The food is good and the harpsichord has provided me with a scratching post any other street cat could only have dreamed of! Enough about me.

I really enjoyed reading about you. You have quite a strong personality, so it seems, and you wind your (weak) parents round your little finger..sorry...paw. You certainly have had a few horrendous adventures.. you really should look after yourself. Re. the food problem, do you know how many humans have eating disorders? It doesn't bear thinking about. Just ask your parents how much they ate over the New Year holiday and you will find your small excesses of tuna small change in comparison! Re. your visits to the psychyatrist's clinic, Jack I would be careful if I were you. They ask you all about your childhood...er, kittenhood... and potty training and then charge you a fortune!

And as to where you sleep, just go to the most comfortable bed in the house...it's very simple. I assure you your snoring is nothing compared to that of a psychiatrist!!! Just be careful when he asks about your dreams. I am sending you two photos of myself. If you don't mind my saying this, I do think you are a very handsome cat. I know that Internet dating has its risks, but do you think we might just hit it off? Are you sure that is a current picture of you? Lots of purrs, Sophie.

Jack, ready to embrace the wor(l)d!

Dear Sophie,

It was a real delight to receive your letter, and to know that you have so much in common with me. You know, not everyday one meets - even by mail - a person ...eeerrr ...(sorry, I am so used to deal with humans, sometimes I get confused)...a cat that seems to be a soulmate. To begin with, neither of us behave like those "fancy cats", with a nose in the air, so full of themselves, as if they come from some higher or noble family. I mean, all those cats with pedigree, they are so snobbish...

But not you and I, 'cause we are both real and authentic street cats, proud of our mixed and not "exclusive" origins, who had the guts and personality to survive all sort of difficulties.
None of these "aristoCats" have ever felt such feelings. You and I, we won the battle against destiny by ourselves...errr...well..."with a little help of our friends" - I mean, the humans that we adopted to take care of us.

My male caretaker, though he is a psychiatrist, seems to be a nice guy - not too crazy as they usually are), and sometimes I listen to his talks with other humans (through the doors - we have this extremely sensitive hearing) and he does not seem to disturb his clients too much.

Ohh...I wish we lived closer...maybe we could meet personally - I mean "catonally" - some of these days. You know, I was ssooo impressed by your letter, that I even had a fantasy (humans do not believe that cats have fantasies, but we know we do...) that maybe we could even be together....You are also sooo good looking, ssoooo colorfull... Oh, but I forgot about a "little" detail...I am living with my human caretakers together with a very kind pussycat - Mimi - and I think that we are kind of engaged... I am not sure how it would sound if I were to hit on you. But what is important is that we can keep on talking - I mean - Meeoouuwing - and exchanging ideas about our lives.

Oooouuuuuhhhh (Cat's yawn) I think I am getting sleepy, so I will take a nap until tomorrow morning. Lots of friendly meeaws for you.
Yours, Jack

Monday, November 24, 2014

Guest Blogger: Diary of a Cat Rescuer

  Rosa - Photos by David Kirk

By Leigh Kirk*

Rescue never sleeps. At any given moment, everywhere in our communities, animals’ lives are in jeopardy either in our shelters or on our streets. And it’s always the rescue calls that come in at off hours —7:30 a.m., late at night, a Sunday — that are the most dire.

When you get involved in rescue, it kind of feels like an infinite black hole that sucks you deeper and farther from “normal” life as you know it. It’s really hard to get a day off.

One particular Sunday a couple of months ago, we decided to try and catch a break and not answer the phone. We deserve one day off, right?  At 10:30a.m. the phone rang. I think we were making vegan waffles.  Two hours later, we broke down and listened to the voicemail from a stranger named Rosa.  So much for a Sunday off.

I called Rosa back. In response to a Facebook plea for help, she had just driven 20 miles to pick up a beautiful young orange female cat with her front leg almost severed. A car accident was suspected.  She had since been sighted for two weeks living in this condition on the streets while caring for her kittens. 

My phone chimed. Pictures of this beautiful orange cat with her broken leg arrived by text. As bad as they were, they didn’t quite prepare me for the grizzly sight that greeted us when we met Rosa. We had arranged to meet at our only emergency clinic open on a Sunday. The photos we took at the emergency hospital proved even too graphic to post on our fundraising page for this kitty’s medical expenses. Her front left leg was almost completely severed and the tissue on the lower half of the leg had died during her time on the street.

We learned further that this very sweet and brave kitty had been abandoned in this state by her owner who had moved across town.

We had no choice but to sign up for a night of expensive hospitalization and triage.  It’s always nerve-wracking not knowing where the funds will come from for what could be an expensive medical rescue.  Thanks to the work and commitment of an active volunteer and the strength of her community network, we rallied support to help cover her bills.

The next day we transported her, leg bandaged, to our regular rescue vet. Thank God they generously support the work we do with deep discounts, allowing us to rescue as many animals as the money will stretch to cover. She promptly received the leg amputation she needed to survive. There was no other option. Her recovery was nothing short of miraculous. Seeing resilience and zest for life in the face of this trauma was a true inspiration.

We needed to name her, this was no longer just another cat off the streets.  Orange female cats are unusual – most are male. We wanted a strong female name for her, this orange mother, who cared for her three identical orange boy kittens under those challenging conditions. After some mulling, we decided upon Rosa, the name of the compassionate woman who drove 20 miles to rescue her in response to a Facebook post from a stranger. And we were drawn to the legacy of Rosa Parks, another strong female figure who fought in the face of adversity.

As dark as animal rescue can be, an almost constant dragging on the soul, there are also the moments of light; the people who give, the animals who survive and live lives filled with love, and the community members who choose to rally and give their support for homeless and vulnerable animal in need.

I went back to the apartment complex to find (the cat) Rosa’s kittens.  Rosa (the street rescuer) had asked the kids who lived there to catch them. I arrived after dark to find two of the three kittens in an old white birdcage and the third sibling hanging close to his two jailed siblings. Oh no, I couldn't leave one kitten behind! Saying a prayer, I set a spare humane cat trap that I had in the car.  Little did I realize how much the kittens were starving, so less than a few minutes later, I had the third loose baby in the trap. Off we drove into a much needed sunset. Rosa and her three boy kittens, all orange like her, never looked back. 

Less than three months later, all have been adopted into loving homes, with two of the boys going as a pair, and Rosa flying home to Canada with her new parents. A family of five adopted children await her, a family who understands what it is like to overcome adversity and to find a loving family.



Rosa's kitties (By David Kirk)


* Our guest blogger Leigh Kirk is the president of Forever Meow , dedicated to rescue and save feral and abandoned cats. To read more about Rosa, go to Rosa's Rescue Facebook page.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

David Grimm, author of Citizen Canine: "Pets are our last anchor to the real world".

David Grimm wrote  Citizen Canine inspired by his cats. It's a fundamental book that is answering many of my questions as a pet guardian and pet aficionada.  How did we get to this point where pets got to be members of our modern families? Where are we going to go with this close relationship?

Grimm, online editor of Science magazine, delivers satisfying answers to that, as he enlightens the whole historical path of humans and their animals and the evolution of this togetherness. It's a fine and fluid read that I recommend to anybody who's willing to bring the understanding of pets and parents to another level.

A bit of background: David and his wife found themselves spending tons of money to save one of their cats and he realized that there's much more to the emotional link between "us" and "them". Here's David's interview, which was interrupted many times by my meowing cat Dada, while I was in the phone while talking to him ...  I believe it just added to the experience ...



Did you have helping "paws"while writing your book?



Well, I certainly had the opposite. Jasper wanted to sit on my lap and on my computer while I was trying to work, ... he inspired me but didn't help me the writing process. And Jezebel was the same thing. She was really trying to sit on my lap all of the time. They were certainly not good for my productivity ... They are lap"Top"cats.

David Grimm with his Lap(TOP)cats, Jasper and Jezebel

What was the most surprising thing you've found when researching about pets while writing the book?

The most surprising was to find out what is happening within the US Military. First of all, the Military considered its dogs as equipment and technically they are using dogs as any other piece of equipment. But this is recently changing, and they are treating the dogs more like human soldiers. They now have a new hospital for injured dogs in combat, and even treating them from PTSD. There's even a move in congress changing to reclassify dogs as canine members of the Army. So this shows that even the military, which is a traditionally a conservative institution, is beginning to promote changes.

Do you think the relationship with the soldiers and their dog partners is helping on those changes?

Yes, a lot of the push is coming from the service men and women who are going into combat with these dogs, and sometimes the dog saves their lives or save the lives of the entire unit. For a long time, the soldiers have been giving unofficial medals to their dogs for heroism.

In your book you describe important historical facts that took us to where we are today in relation to our pets, from ownership to "pet parenthood". Where is this taking us?

It is hard to believe that we can get any closer to our pets in our home because we are so close now. Close to 90% of pet owners consider their pets members of the family, we are going to spend about 60 billion dollars on our pets this year and so I think the real changes will come in the eyes of the law, as I write in the book, about cats and dogs being property, and now probably being more than property in the eyes of the law. In the last couple of decades people in Law Schools are studying about the rights of research animals, farm animals and pets. If something is going to change it will be in that area, the legal status -- they are going to be more protected. The Human Rights groups are touching on that, and I think we are going to see more of that happening.

Do you think that our closeness to our pets reflects a loss of interest in human relationships?

I think that one thing that really changed in the past couples of decades that we've seen a lot of is a dramatic rise in the social and legal status of pets and it coincides with the pervasiveness of the internet and social media. We are texting to people instead of talking to them, we are befriending people at Facebook without talking to them at real life and we go out with a group of friends to a restaurant and we all are staring at our phones. Cats and dogs are increasingly present, when we come home they are there and real. This animals don't leave us for technology, they don't go to their room to play with their IPad. Your dog doesn't ignore you because he goes to play with his X-Box in the room. I think that pets are our last anchor to the real world. They are not virtual, they are there. The cat is in your lap, the dogs are in your bed. They are a constant source of love and affection, which is increasingly absent from our modern society.

Do you think that the fact we are treating our pets as our children is defining a new moral ground to human relationships with their pets? Who is going to win at the end: people who treat their pets like farm animals or pet parents?

I think the pets are going to win. The statistics are definitely on the side of people who take care of their pets. You see the statistics even compared with ten years ago, many owners consider their pet as part of the family. We spend a billions of dollars more on our pets each year. We are spending more on dog daycare and dog bakeries, and things like that. In the US more than half homes have a cat or a dog -- more pets than what people have children. People who treat pets as they treat their children are becoming  mainstream. People who don't think we should have this relationship are increasingly becoming the minority.

How do you define pet citizenship as a human-pet alliance?

I talk about them really becoming real members of society. I can't see a pet voting or driving a car, but what I am really talking about is them being animals that we consider as part of the make-up of our society. These are animals that we think deserve as much protection as humans do, like we all saw during Katrina's rescue in Louisiana. We are having cruelty laws in 50 states, we are punishing people who abuse dogs and cats. So we are seeing an evolution, even with military dogs, effectively dying for their country and being rewarded for their heroism. We are already seeing them as citizens. We are saying that with acts like treating them as family, that these animals are part of our society, and, like the rest of us, need to be protected.










Sunday, September 7, 2014

My Life as a Cat


A few years ago, I caught myself calling my two cats as I call my children. I was slightly embarrassed. All of a sudden I began asking myself: If I am able to like these furry and adorable animals the way I love my children, what am I? A cat-mom, I suppose.
And please forget that real-life feline moms may leave their kittens when they are just 12 weeks old. I couldn't do that with my babies - human or kitten babies, I mean.

There are a few advantages of being a cat. They don't have to dress up nor dress down. They can sleep as much as they want, and, ultimately, they don't need a daily shower.  If they are lucky and cute they may be able to find a good home where they are to be treated so well and will never ever have to hunt for food. Moreover, they don't need words. Their ears, eyes and tail can tell it all.

Juju, my only "daughter", 10 years of companionship


It would be great to have a day or two being a real cat. I was taking a nap with my white Turkish Angora close to my feet and  black Egyptian goddess over my right arm. I was blissful. I felt as if I had furry ears and a big tail. But then I woke up and kind of became human again.

Then, I remembered my mom - who had raised four children and 7 cats telling me that I had to make sure my two cats are aware that I am not a cat. That cats which live with us should understand that I can't be "kneaded" in the middle of the night or understand why they purr while clawing my scalp. Then there's another point of view well described in this article by Gwen Dewar, PhD, considering differences in between the two parenting styles.

And I recalled a polemic piece by writer Susan Maushart, saying that pet moms are not moms.  And other articles disagreeing with that. They might have their point I believe. But maybe... the concept of pet-parenthood should be just addressed as a way of taking care of your pet with the same responsibility as you would raise a child. Having or not a child, I mean.

I grew up in the beginning of the 70s believing that talking to dogs was something that just old senile ladies would do, and people who would address their pets as their mom or dad were just plain cuckoo. Then I adopted my two cats - and later I had my own children. And I kept calling all of them my babies.

Dada. my 13-something Turkish Angora. Always on my side.
Pet parenting is, as defined by a Smithsonian magazine article, actually a brand new concept that tries to define a label for this kind of relationship. The comfortable zone of having pets is that they will not talk back to you. They will bark or maybe hiss. Nut eventually will agree that you know best how to raise them, feed them, and ultimately love them. Being a mom of a 7 and 9-year-old (human) boys I am not sure this is so easy for humans.

Modern Psychology had found its ways o explain why we feel more humanely when we have a helping hand of animals. They know that the bond in between pets and their humans make both healthier and happier. I am happy about this, and  I feel good about my role as a cat mom. And then I embrace my cats and all concepts that connect us to wild nature one way or the other.  And it doesn't matter how we call it: pet parenthood, ownership or friendship.





Sunday, August 24, 2014

Guest Blogger: Bentley, Gifted Wonder Dog







This is a very special Sunday for us here at Petzi. Our first guest blogger is Bentley, the full bred golden retriever featured last week on our Facebook page. Bentley had a little helping hand from Lisa to write the story you are about to read. They have a very special gift to share with us. A real life-changing tale of companionship, hope, love and friendship. 


Bentley

Lisa and Bentley
By Lisa Cunningham*


         Hi! I am Bentley, but my mom Lisa calls me her hero puppy. After wishing for a golden retriever pup  (just like me) every year on her birthday candles, she finally took matters into her own hands three years ago, and found me.

          I was only 8 weeks old when I first came home. My mom woke up every 3 hours and slept downstairs next to my crate until I finally convinced her to just let me sleep with her in a real bed. The trainer told her that if she slept on the floor next to my crate with her fingers through the bars that I would stop crying and go to sleep. I thought  that was just silly. Why would I want to stay in there?!  I knew from the beginning that I was a perfect snuggle pup, so I trained Lisa to listen to me instead! I think that is just working now...

Oh, so back to me being a hero puppy. When I was 10 months old I noticed something really bad about my mom, but I didn’t know how to tell her. I thought about what to do for a while, and even though I knew she would probably be mad at first, I got a little more wild than usual and jumped on her one night while we were playing. She fell and hit her head really hard. These strangers came and took her away in a really big loud car with red lights. I had to wait at home. They were pretty nice and I knew my girl would be back soon. 

              When she came home, she told me that the doctors found a brain tumor when they gave her an x-ray. See! I knew there was something bad, I just couldn’t use my words to tell her. The doctor said I saved her life and they found it before anything really bad happened. She said she wasn’t mad at me.  I knew I was a good boy. I let her hug me a lot and I licked her face to try to make her feel better. She usually doesn’t like when I lick her face, but she let me anyway.

For the past two years I have been in charge of taking care of Lisa. I keep her company when she doesn’t feel good. Sometimes she needs to sleep a lot but I don’t mind because that’s my favorite too! I usually wake her up in the morning by sticking my nose in her face, mostly because I haven’t figured out how to get my own breakfast yet! I follow her everywhere just in case she needs me…really everywhere. I even wait for her right outside the shower! I’m not sure if all dogs do this but I take my job very seriously.

               I take her on walks. Sometimes we just relax and sit outside. I need to sit really close to her, usually on top of her feet. It makes us both feel better even though she tries to tell me I’m too big (I’m not).  I even watch TV with her (I love reality TV --but don’t tell the other pups)!
My favorite thing that we do is going for rides in the car. I never care where we go; it’s always so fun! I cannot ever decide which side has the best smells so I need all the windows open so I can check everywhere. Sometimes if it’s just us, I even get to sit in the front seat!

My mom told me that it’s sleepy time. That means I have to go get in my bed, but I will write more later about my other adventures. I can be a rascal puppy even though I’m 3 and am supposedly a grown up dog now. I have to keep my mom happy, and I know she secretly likes the funny stuff that I do. She she calls it ...being naughty! 


*Lisa blogs at Girl's Best Friend where she shares her stories about Bentley and her journey with cancer.